KARMA.

"What goes around comes around" blah blah blah we all heard that before. I definitely believe in karma, don't get me wrong. But what if it was reversed? Ok, not so much reversed but what if everyone accepted what happened because of something they did. Like a "you get what you deserve" type of mindset. No matter if you did someone wrong or not. For you to fully get my drift I need to explain an example. You know I will always rely on a romantic relationship to get my point across. So imagine a girl and a boy have been in a long term relationship. During the relationship the girl wasn't the best person towards the male. and treated him badly more than she did good. Over time enough was enough and they went their separate ways. Now if you were in the boy's position would you want the girl to suffer in her future relationships because you were treated bad? Or just suffer in general? I want you to answer "NO". Why? Let me explain. You fell in love with this girl and you got the bad end of the stick and probably didn't deserve a lot of what you received. As you grow you need to realize that everyone gets what they deserve. So imagine after the girl has broken your heart she decides to change her ways and become the best person she can be for the next man in her life. That would really piss you off, right? Well what did you really expect? Don't you think if they realized their actions caused them to lose a really great person they are going to get their act together one of these days? Did you think they were going to stay the same? No! Maybe some things do stick with them, like character flaws and such. But we shouldn't expect her to not change for the better even a little bit. Just like you, she's going to try to evolve into a better person too. Yes, it will hurt because you will wonder why you weren't deserving of that. But trust me if she did you horribly how much good karma do you think she is going to have when it comes to relationships? Nothing goes unseen by God. she might end up with someone just like her or worse. Not that you want to wish that on her. But she will get what's coming for her. Also, its no point in being "jealous" of the new person because all you can say is "that's not my problem anymore" and wish them luck and it will feel damn good saying it too. And no matter how much "better" she becomes it won't ever be half as equivalent to what you will ever need. God makes no mistakes....and if it ended, then it probably wasn't supposed to happen. And karma is real, so be careful how you treat others. You will get what you deserve too.

(food for thought).